I love you is a very powerful phrase that anyone can make to someone. It can change the way you think or feel. But words alone are not the only way to show someone that you love them. This article is for all those who may find it a little difficult to say the words, but may find it easier to demonstrate through deed.
1. Gentle Kiss:Knowing when to kiss and how to kiss is not an easy task. I believe that a kiss is the closest way to say I love you because it is a passionate act of intimacy. But know when to kiss and how to kiss your lover. Most women complain about their men kissing them too fast and too hard on the lips, when all they want is a gentle kiss. A gentle kiss can be more stimulating than a big wide open gallop smack on the mouth type of thing. If you want her to know how much you love her give her a gentle kiss often because big things do come in small packages.
2. Warm Embrace: Nothing can make a person feel more loved than a warm embrace. Giving someone you love an affectionate hug can do wonders for a relationship. Many articles have been written about the power of an passionate embrace. It is known to relieve stress,tension,and brings calmness to an otherwise frustrating situation. You might be surprised at the extensive scientific studies that has been done about this gesture.
3. Roses: Giving a rose to your lady is like giving a kiss,it's a very nice and romantic gesture of love. The gift of a rose says i love you to someone special but with a touch of passion and adoration. This passionate gesture go's far deep into history from ages to ages since the beginning of time. You might think that it is old news and not worth doing,but do not underestimate the power of romance through roses.
4. Dinner: Many time men forget that women do get tired as well and that there are ways to relieve some of that tiredness. Doing something special like taking her out to dinner or cooking dinner at home every once in a while would be a great way to say i love you. Now we all know that most of us(men)do not know how to cook like the ladies,but getting a little help from reading and trying something simple until you get it right will go a long way. So guy's please take my advice,if you surprise her with this you will be glad you did.
5. Gifts:Giving someone a gift can be more difficult than you might think and given the special circumstance of relationships you might want to think this one carefully. I would recommend that you ask questions such as what is her/his favorite color or what is their favorite pet or animal? What are the one thing that drives them wild(in a positive way)? And what makes her smile the most or what type of Jewelry they like the most. Asking questions can do wonders when buying a gift for your lover. So be clever and do it right.
6. Intimacy: Oh yeah baby! We know exactly what to do when it come to intimacy. Not so fast guys,it takes more than just having sex with your mate. When it come to a woman you have to understand that intimacy is like cooking food, if you try to cook it too fast you might burn it therefore ruining it. Take your time and allow her to warm up to you because one of the things women hate the most is when men rush to get it on with her. A simple touch on her waist or on her back can be intimacy to a women,a simple kiss or a look can be intimacy to her. I don't want to go to deep into this part but you get the idea. Right? I hope so.
7. Serenade with song: I love this part because I'm a songwriter myself, and I have experience first hand the effects that a song can have on a persons heart. If you have the talent to write a love song for that special someone in your life, please take the time to do it with care. Think about the good and bad times you both shared and even how you both overcame the adversities together. If your not a songwriter think of a song that reminds you of him/her and sing it with passion. Even if your not the greatest singer in your town at least you both will have a great time together and they will know that you will go that extra mile to let them know you love them.
8. Ring:There are all types of rings for every kind of situations and relationships, but the trick is to find the best one suitable to your particular needs. You can not be soft on this one because a ring is a very special gift. A woman or man will read allot into the relationship when there is a ring involved. Be very sure you know where you both stand in the relationship because you don't want to send the wrong signals. If your happy as being close friends and it seams that you both might be getting closer and passionate towards each other, consider a friendship ring. The thing to remember is to let your relationship guide your choices of what rings to get not the other way around. For example, you don't want to get an engagement ring after a few weeks of dating. Take your time and enjoy the ride before you get all cow boyish.
9. Love Letter: This is a very special part of a relationship and it shows the emotional side of a man or a women. Most people have trouble expressing there self verbally to the other half but writing down on paper about how you feel about that person shows that you are willing to be expressive in some kind of way. Love letter's can be written in different ways such as a poem,a song or even a drawing. There's always a way to express your feeling to someone even if your a very shy person.
10. Say it: Saying i love you to a person is always one of the key things to show how much you care about your lover but there are also many other things you can say that shows affection. One thing you can tell them is how much your glad that your with them, reminding them of this everyday keeps your spouse knowing that your not falling out of love with them and that you have the same feelings for them that you had in the beginning.
Love can be many things to many people but one thing it can not and never can be, is unsure. Go ahead, say it. I love you
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